Turning Triggers into Power

An emotional trigger is anything that sparks an intense, often disproportionate, emotional reaction in you. Losing control of your feelings can be overwhelming. To assist you in navigating through these moments, I’d like to share some practical strategies to help you regain control and cope with these intense emotions.


1. Recognition: Acknowledge that you’ve been triggered. This is the first step in gaining control over your reactions.

2. Acceptance: Understand that your response, although intense, is valid. Avoid judging yourself for overreacting; instead, honor these feelings as a part of your experience.

3. Unconditional Response: Approach your feelings without conditions. Allow yourself to feel without restriction or judgment.

4. Breathing: Take a moment to breathe deeply. This helps in calming your immediate physiological response.

Breathe in deeply through your nose, counting to four silently in your mind. Hold your breath briefly, then gently exhale through your mouth while counting to four again. Do it for few rounds.

5. Body Awareness: Pay attention to the sensations in your body. This awareness can provide insights into your emotional state.

6. Naming Emotions: If possible, verbalize your feelings, e.g., “I am feeling angry…” If you can’t name it, that’s okay too.

7. Feeling the Emotion: Permit yourself to experience the emotion fully. Observe and allow it to exist without trying to alter it. This step is crucial for emotional processing.

8. Curiosity and Reflection: Approach your emotions with curiosity. Reflect by asking yourself:

Why do I feel this way?

What is the meaning behind this emotion?

Why is my reaction so strong?

What message is this emotion trying to convey?

What is this pain trying to tell me?

What unmet need is causing this pain?

Address what comes out with love and compassion to yourself.

By following these steps, you develop a more compassionate and understanding relationship with your emotions, leading to greater emotional resilience and self-awareness.

🌟 Take the Next Step: If you want to resolve these emotional triggers, consider booking a session with me. My tailored approach helps you identify and understand your triggers and provides practical strategies to manage and fix them, leading to a more balanced and fulfilling life.